#TIL in meditation: If you could be sure that all the confusion and chaos and stuckness you feel were part of a process of transformation, how would that change the way you relate to your challenges? What are you meant to learn from them? How are you transforming? Into what are you being initiated?
#TIL in meditation: The ability to blend what seem to be opposites is a requisite skill for magical living. Magic is born in the convergence of things that you assume can’t go together. For example, as Ash Wednesday is approaching, I'm considering how death (real and metaphorical) and healing work as partners.
A star discovered 75 light-years away is no warmer than a freshly brewed cup of coffee. https://www.nationalgeographic.com/news/2011/3/110323-coldest-star-discovered-cup-coffee-brown-dwarf-hawaii-space-science/ (My first thought on reading this was Yeowch! That's still preddy hot. Let that one cool down a bit before you drink it.)
#TIL in meditation: Yes, it is scary to leave what you know in search of something truer and deeper. To even be able to ask questions of self-actualization is a privilege. Poet Robert Bly wrote: Always cry for what you want. It is rare that a person regrets seeking to have their needs met.
#TIL in meditation: boundaries do not diminish love; they improve the conditions for it to exist.
I'm glad I'm a citizen, because otherwise I don't have enough points to live here. The only one of the criteria I meet is that I speak English. https://www.thenational.scot/news/18248686.quiz-can-score-enough-points-secure-post-brexit-working-visa/
FYI King James IV put twin babies on an island to see if the children would speak the language of Eden. Children developed a communication method but the experiment failed because no one else knew what language of Eden sounded like. OH HI THE MIDDLE AGES EVERYONE https://www.mentalfloss.com/article/75378/king-scotlands-peculiar-language-experiment
One of the people who cried said that this was the first community where he ever felt safe in his entire life. The other simply said "the impact of this group on me has been... (a huge pause where he spent about 2 minutes trying to collect himself and we all sat quietly)... profound."
I joined a nonprofit board and I attended my first meeting last night. The Treasurer had an obvious black eye (a rather large guy, and he didn't want to share how he got it) and two people cried when asked to say what the nonprofit meant to them. Gonna be a good change of pace for me, I think. #volunteer #service
#TIL in meditation: Mythic stories since time immemorial have linked folly with holiness; those who dare to diverge from society's negative conventions bring the medicine that a sick society needs. If you want change you must break rules.Those who don't will stay bound to the decaying matter of the past.
#TIL in meditation: Avoidance can so easily become compulsive; when we avoid a feeling, we reinforce the belief that that feeling is dangerous. The more danger we associate with the feeling, the more aggressively we avoid it. So we're not at all free from the thing, we're enslaved by it.
#TIL in meditation: living well is something like a musical conductor, managing sound and silence. It is about striking a balance between willpower and allowing. You have to know when it is time to push or when to ease up. In either case it takes confidence to know you’ve done your part. A real challenge is to learn the difference between the discomfort that comes with moving in a new way and pain that comes before an injury.
#TIL in meditation: A teacher is a vessel for certain knowledge and has the important job to awaken the wisdom inherent in each of us. Eddie Stern wrote "devotion to the guru is meant to symbolize devotion to the teachings, not the man." Mind the need to project your power onto someone else. It is you.